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Guest Post by Crystal Beaux

Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant,  and whoever wants to be first must be your slave  just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” Matthew 20:26-28 (NIV)  

I think we all struggle at some point, probably more than one time in our life, with the question, “What is my purpose in life right now?”

Quite often, and I am talking from experience, we try and make it too big.  We wait for the one “big thing” to happen and overlook the people and opportunities that are right in front of us.  It is easy to take them for granted and think it’s just a part of life or unimportant. But, I believe in Ecclesiastes 3 that teaches us that there is a season for everything.  I am learning that God sometimes wants me to pause and look around at the different roles He has given me in this season of my life.  He is waiting for me to serve with purpose with those roles.

For example, think for a moment how many roles you currently have each day? Are you a wife, friend, sister, mom, church member, volunteer, community member, teacher, grandmother, aunt, mentor, confident?  Can you name another that I have missed?  

Here’s the point:

Sometimes we are so busy mentally trying to figure it all out

that we miss what is right in front of us.

I have to remind myself also that God has given me many opportunities to serve as He has clearly called me to with those who are right in front of me. For example:

  • Am I being the wife God instructs me to be for my husband?
  • Am I teaching my children with Godly instruction and spending quality time with them?
  • Am I attending church as a checkoff each week, or are there areas where I should be giving of my time and talents?
  • Am I giving quality time and a listening ear to my friends and family? 

Matthew 20:26-28 in the NIV says: Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant,  and whoever wants to be first must be your slave  just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

My prayer is that I don’t overlook what God has put right in front of me, and that I serve with purpose just as Jesus had a purpose when He came to serve me.

I encourage you to serve and love in the current role God has placed you in during this season of life.  That is the purpose He would have you fulfill today.

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crystal beaux bio photoAbout the Author: Crystal Beaux is a life purpose and wellness coach who is helping women through coaching, speaking, workshops and Simple Designer Meals, get fit inside and out by finding time to eat healthy, exercise, and live their life purpose. She works to help women discover their God given talents, abilities and spiritual gifts so that they have a clear direction for their life, identify any blockades and obstacles that may be holding them back from walking out their purpose, learn to grow in Christ by developing daily spiritual habits, and discover how to walk out with purpose and make a difference with all that God intended for their life. Learn more about Crystal and Your Fitness Designer, and how you can get a FREE 30 minute consultant here!

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